Preparing to get rid of my car, Harry-the-car-who-lived (see Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone, Chapter 1), meant unstuffing overstuffed side pockets, glove compartment, middle console; removing maps from the 3 states I lived in while I owned the car; removing the library books that need to be returned before my move; emptying the trunk, which still has reminders of my last move; stripping away to reveal the car as I purchased it.
Now that the car is gone, I am left with loss. It's not the car, it's missing my Dad, knowing that as the years pass since we lost him, there are more and more things he misses out on, that we miss out on, more things that happen in our lives that he should be a part of...
So, today I am wading through missing Dad and thinking about a great little silver Saturn that saw me through:
- 4.5 years
- 70,000 miles (it's final count was 263,389)
- 3 states: Michigan to Massachusetts, Massachusetts to Ohio
- Hauling around friends, nieces and nephews, best friends' kids, vegetables from my garden
- So many great memories
I am reminded of a poem I read for the first time after my Dad died, the poem was in a book B1 sent me to get me through the really rough days and the sleepless nights: Garrison Keillor's Good Poems for Hard Times. An excellent collection.
"Starting the Subaru at Five Below"
After 6 Maine winters and 100,000 miles,